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'Adolescence' star Owen Cooper just made Emmy history

The Netflix show wins big at the awards for tackling toxic masculinity and telling uncomfortable truths

MMS Staff

15 Sept 2025

5-min read

At just 15 years old, Owen Cooper stood on the Emmy stage this week with tears in his eyes and disbelief in his voice.


“Honestly, when I started these drama classes, I didn’t expect to be even in the United States, never mind here.”


With that, Cooper made history as the youngest-ever winner for Outstanding Supporting Actor in a Limited or Anthology Series, recognised for his breakthrough role as Jamie in Netflix’s harrowing miniseries Adolescence. 


But what he and the show represent goes far beyond a single award.


Adolescence - a bold, slow-burning, emotionally raw exploration of youth, violence, and masculinity - swept the 2025 Emmy Awards with an urgency that few television projects in recent memory have matched.


In total, the series took home eight major awards, including:


🏆 Outstanding Limited or Anthology Series

🏆 Outstanding Lead Actor in a Limited Series (Stephen Graham)

🏆 Outstanding Supporting Actor (Owen Cooper)

🏆 Outstanding Supporting Actress (Erin Doherty)

🏆 Outstanding Writing (Stephen Graham & Jack Thorne)

🏆 Outstanding Directing (Philip Barantini)

🏆 Outstanding Casting

🏆 Outstanding Cinematography


Yet for all its cinematic finesse, Adolescence succeeds most by refusing to look away.


One boy, one crime, one uncomfortable truth


Adolescence opens with a news story that feels all too familiar: a 13-year-old boy, Jamie Miller, has been arrested for the murder of a female classmate.


But this is not a whodunit. It’s not a mystery to be solved.


It is an excavation - of shame, rejection, digital radicalization, and the dangerous stories boys are told about who they’re supposed to be.


Filmed in just four episodes - each shot in one continuous take - Adolescence places viewers in a world where time stretches and implodes. There are no edits, no jump cuts, no breathers. The camera lingers as Jamie moves from classroom to interrogation room to youth detention facility. As he unravels, so does everything we assume about violence and vulnerability.


What makes Cooper’s performance especially haunting is how ordinary he allows Jamie to be. There is no dramatisation, no villainous smirk.


Just a boy - soft-featured, uncertain - failing to find his place in a world that offers few scripts outside dominance and denial.


The quiet collapse of boyhood


The series has been widely hailed as a masterclass in how storytelling can challenge societal myths, especially around toxic masculinity, online incel culture, and the emotional illiteracy that surrounds boys and men.


But Adolescence does something rare: it focuses not just on the aftermath of violence, but the slow, daily drip that leads there.


From Jamie’s desperation for acceptance to his inability to name feelings beyond anger or defensiveness, to the silent grooming of digital spaces that reward entitlement over empathy - the show becomes an indictment of how patriarchy raises boys, not just how it breaks them.


“We didn’t want to excuse him. But we also didn’t want to throw him away,” said co-creator Stephen Graham in a post-Emmys interview.


“What we’re showing is that these systems - family, school, internet - are shaping boys into something brittle and dangerous. And often, no one notices until it’s too late.”


Holding boys responsible without dehumanizing them


Crucially, Adolescence resists the temptation to turn trauma into spectacle.


The girl who is killed is not voiceless. The women around Jamie - the forensic psychologist (played with quiet force by Erin Doherty), the female classmates, even the investigating officers - are not caricatures or moral anchors. They’re full people, navigating misogyny in their own right. The show never lets viewers forget that male violence is not an abstraction, but a wound that lands on bodies.


And yet, it also doesn’t dehumanise Jamie. This is where the show’s radical empathy lies. It holds grief and accountability in the same breath. That, perhaps, is its most feminist gesture.


Why this matters - especially now


In 2025, Adolescence feels like a necessary rupture.


Around the world, we are witnessing a surge in online extremism targeting boys and men. From the normalization of “red pill” influencers to real-world violence rooted in digital ideologies, the stakes are not hypothetical. They are fatal.


In India, the UK, the US, and beyond, conversations around mental health, masculinity, neurodivergence, and social exclusion are gaining traction - and facing fierce backlash. For many young people, there is a painful familiarity in Jamie’s isolation. Many have felt the sting of being “too much” or “not enough,” of having emotions pathologised or dismissed.


What Adolescence offers is not a solution, but a starting point: an honest, uncomfortable portrait of how boys are taught to harden. And what happens when they shatter.


The power of firsts


That all of this comes from a 15-year-old making his first on-screen appearance only adds to the gravity.


Owen Cooper’s win is a reminder that talent does not need decades of polish to reveal truth - and that sometimes, young people are the best ones to tell stories about youth. His stillness, his silences, his barely-contained panic - they linger. They speak to a generation of boys caught between who they are and who they’re told to be.


“This might have my name on it,” Cooper said, holding the gold statue in his hands, “but it really belongs to everyone who helped me see that stories matter.”


What do we do with this story?


Adolescence is not easy to watch. But that’s the point. It demands more than passive viewing.


It asks us: How are we failing our boys? What happens when shame is louder than love? When the internet becomes a mirror, not a mentor? When emotional repression is rewarded more than repair?


And: What kind of world might we build if we raise boys not to fear their softness, but to trust it?


For educators, caregivers, advocates, and youth leaders, this is the kind of story that should be screened, studied, and discussed. Not just for its craft, but for its call.


Because if we want fewer Jamies in the world, we need more Owens - and more storytelling that refuses to flinch.


If this story moved you, share it with your community. Watch Adolescence. Talk to a young person in your life. Start the conversation. And keep it going.

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